Question Your Rules

I am a rule-follower. I readily admit it. I love rules for so many reasons. Rules create order, define boundaries, and facilitate group cooperation towards common goals. (Unless it’s game night at the Bradley’s. In that case, rules are useless because only 2 out of 7 of us follow them.) But it’s interesting what the…

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Boundaries: Hold the Line

This cycle of compromise and compliance then eventual frustration, irritation, and overwhelm is ENTIRELY my fault. I say ‘yes’ when I need to say ‘no,’ and I say ‘it’s okay’ when it isn’t, because in the moment I feel like it’s fine or no big deal. But those “no big deals” add up quickly when I’m not paying attention. I cannot have a reactionary internal system where I only defend my line if I have a negative emotional response.

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Friction Vs. the Easy Button

I’m going to venture out on a limb and suggest that the Staples’ “easy button” has become a cultural icon. More than 15 years after its inception, one quick Google search pulls up all sorts of buying options for your very own button, years of articles written about the campaign, and loads of marketing analyses…

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Why Unburdened?

It was the summer of 2020 and I, like so many others, felt shaken from the chaos and disappointments of the early Covid pandemic. The spring of 2020 was supposed to be a capstone season for me, as a mother and on several personal levels. Both my oldest son and I were positioned to graduate…

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